You really can't be nice to niggas

I have too much anger in my heart to really share with y'all the full level of pisstivity that I have right now...

Warning: nothing will be grammatically corrected, I'm not re-reading, if it doesn't make any sense charge it to my head, not my heart.

So the other day, I decided to share one of my pet peeves. As a recap-I don't like for someone to tell me they have something to tell me "later". There's one singular thing that I hate more than that: flakes. I'm ok with ppl that are late, at least them motherfuckers show up. Sometimes them niggas can get the fuck on too cause after a certain period of time, it's just got damn disrespectful.

You may say, "Yo Christin, you're late too", and to this I will reply "never more than 20 min". Is it perfect? Nope. Does it make sense? To me it does, and here's why; it's pretty socially acceptable to be 5-10 min late, 15 and 20 is kinda pushing but it's acceptable as long as the person lets you know. I'm that person. I'm that person that's always gonna be late, but imma tell you. Another thing that you can count on is the fact that I'm going to BE THERE. Late? ¡Sí! There? ¡Dos sí!

Nothing grinds my gears more than someone who says that they're going to do something, be somewhere, meet you somewhere, do something with you but when it comes time they'll flake. The level of disrespect is so fucking high that it's hard for me to forgive someone if they've done that.

Remember how I said the other day that I'm very self aware? Here's another example of just how I safe proof my life to try to shield myself from the bullshit. I have a temper problem, I'm well aware of this, so I try to stay away from situations where I know it's going to agitate me. So if I make plans with someone and I know that they either have the propensity to flake, or I haven't quite established a trust with them where I know they won't flake, I'll install a lot of exit strategies for the other person. Confused? Here's what I mean: so let's say you plan a meeting with someone a week or more in advance. I'm going to reference it multiple times to make sure that that day and time works for you. I'll let you back out if other things come up, cause I understand, shit happens. I'll even be ok if you do it the day of cause I can still make other plans. I'm not a saint, by any means, so imma still be a lil upset but imma forgive you and kinda know from then on what box to put you in, also you gave me enough time to make other plans.

Ohhhhhhhhhh but there's that special subset of ppl who just stop communicating and never say anything. You bitches...whew. You bitches make my blood boil and my head hurt. The narcissistic qualities of a flake is something that someone with a psych degree should make a book about you hoes. You care so much about yourself and your lack of consideration and respect for the other person is de-motherfucking-plorable.

By the time you flake, you've had at least 3 times to back out. Depending on how long the meeting has been planned, usually dictates my level of anger. If it's something that has been 2 weeks or more, I've probably canceled or said no to other things in order to do w/e it was we were supposed to do. Time is the one thing you'll never get back. I COULD HAVE BEEN DOING OTHER THINGS. That's what pisses me off-I COULD HAVE BEEN DOING OTHER THINGS.

Ugh. Ain't nobody checking for you Otis. You don't have to lie to kick it, you're literally preaching to the choir. If you wanna go-then go. If you don't, it ain't no sweat off my nose but just let a nigga know.

I don't have time to explain shit that shouldn't be need to be explained. It makes me wonder if you niggas wash your hands when you finish using the restroom. It's literally that simple.