To Abstain or Not To Abstain; That is The Question

So about two years ago, I decided I was going to abstain from sex until I graduated from college. Yeah, that shit only worked for 10 months lol. Today I got a text from a guy that I used to like a looooooong time ago. He happens to kinda be in a relationship, and was married at one point. Actually, now that I think about it, his divorce isn't finalized, but I digress... He texted me saying that he had the "house to himself" as if that was supposed to entice me to come over. I decided against it for three reasons:

1. Sneak sex is NOT enticing to me. Being the other woman is NOT a good feeling.
2. I just wasn't feeling it. 
3. It would've been empty sex...no one likes empty sex. I might as well 'bate!

And then I started to think...Why have sex at all when it's going to be mediocre? Why don't I just be abstinent again?
When I mentioned to a "friend" that I was thinking of abstaining from sex for a while, he called me a ho. Apparently only ho's decided to abstain because they've had too many partners. Needless to say we're no longer friends, and he has no idea that the number has yet to reach double digits. 


Of course I'm just talking shit right now and I'm nowhere near making a decision. As much as I don't like dull dick, I hate no dick even more lmao. Eh, I don't know, I'm going to mull all this over because abstaining from sex is a major decision to make. Plus, if i do decide to do it, I'll need a reason, something that will make me want to commit to something this drastic.

As always, I want to leave you guys with a question: Would you ever abstain from sex? Have you ever abstained from sex? If so, what was your reason for doing it?

Until next time my loves!