Best Way to Get Over Someone?? Get Under Someone Else

Last Monday, my car prep/driver came in & was looking a little long in the face so I asked him what was wrong...



Alex, my car prep, gets bread. He buys and sells cars, designs billboards, and has a whole bunch of other shit going on. He's a cool dude; great personality and as long as you give him respect, he'll do anything for you.

Anyway, he and his girlfriend has been together for the past 3 years. As of late, his girlfriend has been on his head and asking,

"when are we getting married?"..."My friends say that I'm stupid because I've been with you all this time and you haven't even propose to me"..."you don't love me, you don't want to marry me"...

And other little shit like that. The funny thing is, Alex bought the ring like 4 months ago, he just won't propose because she continues to whine and complain that he hasn't propose. The nagging makes him question whether he really wants to be with her. The way he puts it, "When we're together and she does that nagging shit, I ask myself whether I really wanna be with her, but when we're going through this bullshit and I'm about to lose her, I realize I really love her".

Dude was upset, and you could see it on his face so he asked me, "What do you do to get over a guy"??

I thought real quick, and he happened to answer the question for me, "you just get with someone else don't you?". I hesitated, thought about all the dudes that I had been with and that's usually my MO. If we're done, I'm on to the next.

I thought about those days, weeks, &months after Claude, and BOY was I on some other shit! I made sure I had a nigga to preoccupy my time. It didn't get me over him, but is sure as fuck help me temporarily not think about it!

Another example would be Married Man. Married Man was perfect. We had bunch of shit in common, he'd text me 'Good Morning', constantly throughout the day, and also 'Good night'...you know how a bitch love those GM txt lol. Head game was 👍 (for people who don't have iPhones, that's a thumbs up), just one flaw...he was a lying ass bastard who was married, had a child and was living with his wife (who he lied and told me was his roommate). The way I got over him, after a day of moping of course, was I got with my current beau. Don't know how much longer this is gonna last...but that's a different post, for a different day lol


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