There was this Facebook post titled, "12 Reasons Why Old Souls Have Such A Hard Time Finding Love"
Pretty thought provoking. A lot of times I read it and said, "well that's kinda everybody, but it is a little more noticeable in ppl like me.
My interpretation, after the jump.
1. They have a strong sense of identity
You damn right. If I don't know who I am when you come along, how do I not get lost in you? How can I grow WITH you without turning INTO you unless I know myself? I have my own things, my own dreams, aspirations. Know that when I say I'm ready, I'm ready.
2. Left unchecked, their hyper-intuitiveness can wreck relationships.
You damn right. Cause I'm observant as shit. If you tell me something, imma remember it. I do this for two reasons; I show love by randomly doing something or buying something I heard you say you wanted/ liked/missed. The 2nd is so I can catch you in your lies and leave a paper trail.
I mentioned this second, not because I didn't want to lead with the bad, but bec it's not intentional; I dont think everyone's a liar. It's because I know that everyone has the ability to lie. It's not that I'm tryna fact check everything, but if I was, if you wasn't lying it wouldn't be anything to worry about. Plus, you gotta wait so you can put it all together to know if you tripping or not.
3. Many are in the throes of twin flame relationships
They’re attached or are with people who are not their “forever” people, rather, intense connections they’re meant to learn, and rapidly expand, from.
Y'all know this ain't me, cause y'all know I'm a staunch believer in if you ain't keepin em don't keep em around.
4. They often had a greater purpose that must be attended to before they can find love
Found mine before you. So you good boo.
5. They will not settle for anything less than soulmate love.
I almost said, "you damn right", but Id kick it with a right now until I got a forever. You never know the difference in the beginning.
6. While many people can bring them passion, few can bring compatibility.
You damn right. It ain't just about dick. As Situationship likes to say, "cock and conversation". That's the basis of every relationship and depending on how good it is, it usually dictates how long yall relationship lasts. There's a bit MORE that you get when you feeling that person. You can get some variation of those two principles with any and everyone...but when it's the perfect balance with that ONE. Man.
7. They’re less inclined to go out and meet people in modern ways.
Lies. I was on Eharmony, ho.
8. They’re natural healers, and often attract people who need help, not love
Somewhat facts, but since I know myself, I try to Heisman them hoes when I peep they need help and not love.
9. They dislike the “game.”
Ehhh yes and no, cause and effect is what most don't know -Cudi
I low key love the game. Im a comm major who hung around guys for most of her life. I love the game. I LOVE IT. I hate people who don't play it properly, and I hate games. There's a difference.
Everyone has game, and everyone plays the game. Not all game is negative. Your "game" could mean you like to be available so you're the first ones niggas call. You could be the nice guy/girl. You might be a caterer. You might be like me, I'm the "here's what it is" person. I'll tell someone in a min, "just tell me what's up". You could tell me, "I'm not looking for anything serious". I'll say ok and really mean it. I'll still give you the ass, maybe even faster cause we don't need none of that get to know you shit. I hate the niggas that'll play like they want/ready for a relationship, knowing they ain't, just to get ass. That's what I hate. Or, OR ppl that mix signals so much that it takes the fun outta whatever situation you were originally in.
10. Their standards are sky high
Not really. Now you gotta remember I'm 28...some of this shit should come standard in the basic package, but since it don't, imma mention some highlights: Mutual respect, understanding, can emote properly, converse, have a personality, have goals (or be aware that you don't have any and working towards figuring it out), have a job (or working towards getting one), have a car (easy access to a veh whenever), be able to balance a budget, be NICE, caring, loving, like to have fun and try new things. Attractive (to me, at least), and attracted to me.
I'm not just asking for ANYONE, I'm asking for a guy I'd actually like and want to spend some time with. Not picky. I think
11. They have baggage
who don't, ho. I ain't damaged tho.
12. They feel fear as intensely as they feel love.
The degree to which they love something is proportionate to how much they fear losing it, or not being “good enough” for it. They don’t just love intensely, they feel everything else intensely, too, and sometimes, that gets in the way of the really good things in front of them.
This was another you damn right, but not for the same reasons. I feel fear as intensely as love, cause I know that no matter how I may feel about how secure, happy I am, or the other person may feel, there's always time where the relationship will end. So I'm almost always psychologically bracing for the crash. That usually does indeed come. Which haven't been because I caused my fears to manifest, but because niggas are niggas and will always and forever be niggas, even when you on your shit. Remember that.
Because you question shit don't mean that you're jaded, skeptical, cynical, damaged, broken, carrying baggage. You may have valid ass reasons, examples, feelings, that you only noticed because you are jaded, skeptical, cynical, damaged, broken, carrying baggage. That don't mean that becuase you are jaded, skeptical, cynical, damaged, broken, carrying baggage that fuck shit aint still fuck shit when it happens. A flash light in a dark room don't mean you control the sun. It's just a tool to bring light.
Aye that was deep as fuck and I thought of that all on my own. I had to pay myself on the back for that. Lol.
Full article here: http://educateinspirechange.org/spirituality/12-reasons-old-souls-hard-time-finding-love/
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